Let me just say. Losing something isn’t easy. Whether its a cat, a rat or an unknown love. If its lost, it will never be back and that is the burden. To be a friend is to help heal the pain despite your criticism to the object that causes the pain. If it is lost, it will never be back. The thought of it, whether its a cat, a rat or an unknown love, can break a certain type of person. So its up to us, friends, to help heal the pain.